The Bed and Breakfast

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WHAT YOU WILL EXPERIENCE
Every room has its own personality. What is the personality of the room we are inviting you to experience? It is sensual, elegant, and sacred. It is an intimate room, strikingly bold, and creative, vibrant with beauty and color, and powerfully romantic in a passionate way. It will encourage you to be a little more wild and wanton and a lot more heart-centered and sensual. It provides aids to emotional and sexual intimacy. It was made for love. It was designed to take your breath away, to take you out of your head and into your heart and your senses. It was designed to provide you with every opportunity to break out of the mold and recreate yourselves anew in one or more wonderful days and nights.

In Tantra we know that if we create on the outer level what we wish to experience on the inner level that it will be easier to achieve this. Thus, we dress ourselves and create our environment into that which best expresses what we want to find in ourselves and our relationship. We have created the outer for you in order to bring forth these qualities in each of you and in your love-making.

LET THE SACRED, SENSUAL BEAUTY OF THE OUTER ENVIRONMENT DRAW FORTH THE SACRED, SENSUAL BEAUTY BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR BELOVED

We invite you to take this opportunity to get out of the rut that the pressures and conditioning of everyday life, reoccurring squabbles, and numbing familiarity place on you. In this relaxing, stimulating, sensual, sacred, beautiful and sexy place, celebrate your relationship with each other. Relax together. Have a Jacuzzi and a glass of wine. Put on some music and dance together in the play room. Check out one of the wonderful Tantric and sexual intimacy dvds. Use the resources we provide to find new ways to express yourself and experience your partner. Put on the music. It doesn’t matter what you put on. You can’t go wrong. Each disk is chosen to take you into the right mood for love and intimacy. Use the wisdom cards and the Relationship Intimacy Dyadic Encounter cards to open up to each other and share in deeper ways than you usually do. Take advantage of our services to learn how to move into the Sacred Heart Space and make a soul connection with each other and then use what you have learned when you are alone together. From that very present, heart centered place move into the sensual, taking your time. There is no rush. Nowhere to go and nothing to do but to enjoy the moment fully with each other, letting each experience take you into the next. There are some magnificent toys for you to try out in your sexual play that will enable you to experiment, which will bring a new excitement to your love-making. We will instruct you in their use beforehand so that you don’t have to spend the night learning how to use them – as we did. Pick out some of the positions from the Karma Sutra book and try them. The book we have will tell you if a position is too difficult for either the man or the woman, if it is suitable for only certain body types, or if it especially good for something such as contacting the female g-spot. We have book marked some of our favorites. It is important to try something new without getting into the mechanics of working it out. You will benefit greatly if you chose to do our session on How to Create an Incredible Date Night and we will be available to you for this if you chose to do so.

Many couples are so numbed by the usual and predictable they have trouble getting aroused. This romantic, sensual playground, with all its intimacy evoking and love-making amenities, is the antidote to that. Take the opportunity to try new and different things. Experience, and enjoy, what a new environment with wonderful props for sensual/sexual pleasure, does for your lovemaking.

We believe that the time you spend in this beautiful B&B will be one of the very special times of your life.  If you receive the Tantric coaching and relationship guidance we offer,.
it will be the gift that keeps on giving.

Here is what the B&B alone provides.

THE TANTRIC ENVIRONMENT

Imagine how you and your beloved would feel if you stepped into an environment, which had all this to offer:

A sensual, romantic ambiance. This is created by an elegant, sensual décor, candle light and other soft lighting, music that relaxes you and enhances your intimacy, exquisite sacred Tantric artwork and objects, beautiful flowers, and the most fragrant of incense. The colors, textures, sights and smells are all conducive to intimate relating.

Upscale detail. We have gone for a level of quality that a hotel cannot compete with. The bedroom and bathroom are painted by an artist in a special faux style. The artwork is giclee prints signed and numbered by the artists Richard Stodart and Rampal. The burgundy velvet bedspread and pillows were made with the room in mind. The ceiling is covered in soft, billowing fabrics to create a romantic temple atmosphere. Gorgeous Tiffany lamps and an exquisite light art sculpture light the room. From the bathroom rugs and bath curtains, vases, surround sound, slim line, LCD TV screen, lamps, excellent quality luxureous towels, and a myriad of things that add to the beauty of the room, everything is first class.

For pleasuring each other. Sensual oils and lubes, feathers, furs, and sanitized sexual toys are provided to support your sexual play. You may purchase your own if you wish.

A big memory foam bed. This is a California king size with memory foam mattress and large cushions all around. It is big enough for a very long person to have all the room he or she needs – a perfect play bed.

A Tantra love swing to make love in. If you wish we will give you instructions in its’ use

Liberator blocks. These enable you to make love in positions, such as Kama Sutra positions, that bring you ecstasy and which would be difficult or impossible otherwise. For those who like to get a little on the edge, hand and foot cuffs and blind folds are provided.

Relationship Dyadic Encounter Cards. Conversation topics that assist you in sharing who you are with each other by telling the deep truth of your life - without going into shame or blame.

Osho Zen Tarot Deck - a wisdom deck to bring enable you to go deeper into yourselves and eachother without getting into talking about your problems.

A holosynch audio experience. This will take your brain waves on a soothing ride, out of the fast passed beta of the ordinary every day mind into the more relaxing, uplifted alpha and theta brain wave patterns which are more suited to spiritual and sexual experience. Two people can share in this optional experience at the same time. If you arrive frazzled from travel and want to mellow out fast, this is one way of doing it.

The neurophone experience. This allows you to experience sound through your skin as distinct from your ears. It also relaxes you and takes you into a low level pleasurably altered state.

A video center so that you can see Tantric videos, which we provide.

A cd player with a library of music perfect for your romantic and love-making pleasure.

A library of books on Tantra, sexuality and erotic art. We will have a Kama Sutra book available with specific notations as to which positions are best for certain types of people and for certain interests, such as female g-spot orgasm or to create a better fit when genital sizes are mismatched..

A massage table. Give your lover a massage or receive one from one of us. In fact, we have two massage tables and you can both receive a massage at the same time, if you wish.

A romantic bathroom. This is absolutely gorgeous with beautifully painted walls, artwork, candles, flowers, incense, music, quality soaps, spectacular shower curtains, luxury bathmats, and large, soft cozy towels.

A clothing optional heated redwood spa in an attractive, very private garden. The garden borders on a golf course abounding with trees. You can relax there with a glass of wine for as long as you wish.

Designer terry cloth bathrobes.

Sensual, delicious snacks of fresh cut up fruit pieces, liquors, chocolate truffles served in the evening with any other surprises that we think up. These will help you keep your blood sugar level up and intensify your pleasure during a night of romantic fun.

Natural, healthy, safe aphrodisiacs and nutrients designed for your sexual health. Men may find that these enable them to have a stronger, harder erection longer.

A healthy and delicious breakfast served either in bed, downstairs in the dining room or outside in the garden area.

A golf course stroll. We are located on the La Costa golf course and late afternoon and early evening walks are possible. The trees, birds, ducks, ponds and soft light will relax you and bring you out of your head and into your senses, which is where you will want to be for the night. Of course, if you are interested in playing a game of golf, that’s available too.

The beach. We are about an 8 to 10 minute drive from the fabulous Carlsbad beach on which you can take a long or short walk and watch the sunset. In the summer it is a good beach for swimming and surfing

You will find that when you leave your own environment and step into one that has your romantic pleasure in mind that it will be far easier to let go the stress of life and move into the loving, sensual space that supports emotional and sexual intimacy.

If you would like us to spend an hour with you, telling you how to do an incredible date night and give you a written outline of our main points, we would be happy to do so.

If you don’t feel like leaving your room and going out for dinner, you can order out or we may be able to arrange to have dinner made for you and serve you wine. There will be an additional fee, which we will negotiate based on what you want and how time consuming it will be to provide you with your desires.

A Unique Opportunity! The Option of
Private Tantric Coaching at Your San DiegoTantric Bed &Breakfast

Some of you may wish to be left to your own devices to explore the pleasure possible with the resources that we have supplied you with. Others may prefer to have some time with us, and through doing so to learn to operate at new level in the arena of your emotional intimacy and sexual passion. There are two ways you can do this. The first is through our Tantric Romantic Date Night offerings. The second is to receive coaching in Tantra and the art of Sacred Sexuality. Our Tantric sessions would be approximately three hours – and you can do more than one or can do a longer session (4 or 5 hours). We would time these sessions so as to ensure that you had plenty of time to spend alone. A choice of morning, afternoon or evening sessions are provided.

(Box)Whether you are in a long term relationship, and want to re-romance your relationship, or are in the honeymoon stage of your relationship (or have a honeymoon in mind), we will provide a perfect environment for love-making and romance. If you wish, you may also get expert private Tantric coaching on how to bring romance into your relationship or on the Tantric consciousness and sexual skills that better enable you to experience that “in love” feeling and juicy sexual passion. (End Box)

WHAT TO DO IF YOU WANT TO GET OUT AND ABOUT

The location and it’s offerings

While we don’t think that you are really going to want to stray far from home base, you just might, especially if you are with us for a longer stay. If you are from out of town, we will be happy to provide you with information about the places to visit that we love and will inform you if any Tantric happenings are taking place locally. There are some fine restaurants close by, including those at the La Costa Resort and Spa which is a short walk from our location, and those at the Four Seasons Hotel which is a few minute drive from us. There is a large shopping center a short walk away with a variety of good restaurants, a coffee house, movie theatre, video store, beauty parlors and a supermarket. The North County of San Diego has wonderful tourist destinations, such as the Torrey Pines State Park (which has hiking trails bordering the beach), the Self Realization Foundation Meditation Garden, as well as many delightful small beach towns and cities with excellent shopping and restaurants. You will be able to ride in a balloon in Del Mar or go para-sailing in the Torrey Pines area. If you enjoy nude beaches there is a local one called Blacks beach in the Torrey Pines area, about 25 minutes away. We are only 35 minutes from both downtown San Diego with its fascinating Gas Lamp district, Hillcrest and La Jolla (great places to go dancing, dining, bar hoping and shopping). We are 35 minutes from the San Diego airport and 8 minutes from the Carlsbad Palomar airport. We are an hour from the border and the Mexican city of Tijuana which is known for its nightclubs, cheap dentistry, and bargains. These time estimates assume that you are not traveling in peak hour traffic.