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THE ROMANTIC TANTRIC DATE NIGHT
We can teach you how to have a romantic, sensual and
very sexy date with each other, so that you can take full
advantage of this magnificently appointed room. We call
it the Romantic Tantric Date Night and once you have learned
how to create this experience for yourselves, you will
be able to recreate it over and over again. In fact, we
recommend that you have a weekly date night dedicated
to igniting, and delving as deeply as possible into, the
love and passion in your relationship.
A Tantric Romantic Date Night is a long, lovely time spent
together in which your attention is very focused on each
other from a place of appreciation, honoring, love, and,
yes, even adoration. It is a womb in time and space that
the couple creates in order to cultivate the sacredness
and specialness in their relationship by taking the time
to acknowledge and nurture it further. It is a time of
deep sharing - emotional, sensual, sexual and spiritual.
It begins with winding down and relaxing and moves from
there into emotional intimacy, the sacred heart space,
sensuality and finally to sexuality. Each step becomes
a doorway into the next by providing the foundation for
it.
There are four different ways we can provide you with
the knowledge and the skills to have a Tantric romantic
date night. They are all excellent but our favorite, and
the one we most highly recommend, is the Guided Romantic
Date Night Experience. We will first list the four options
and then describe each, beginning with the shortest session
and leading to the longest, and our favorite, session.
FOUR TANTRIC ROMANTIC DATE NIGHT OPTIONS
TO ENHANCE YOUR STAY - AND YOUR LIFE
1. How to Create the Kind of Emotional Intimacy that
Leads to Sexual Intimacy & Passion. A short coaching
session (1 to 1 1/2 hours)
2. Introduction to Tantra and a Tantric Puja for Two
(1 1/2 to 3 hours)
3. A Mini Workshop Experience (3 to 4 hours)
4. A Guided Tantric Romantic Date Night experience (4
to 6 hours)
1. HOW TO CREATE THE KIND OF EMOTIONAL INTIMACY THAT
LEADS TO SEXUAL INTIMACY & PASSION. A SHORT COACHING
SESSION (1 to 1 1/2 hours)
There are three parts to this short but very potent session.
Step One - Creating Collaboration
Any positive improvements in the intimacy in your relationship
will more easily be derived if you establish a collaborative
team relationship to bring this about. We will give you
some idea of what this will involve for you. We will also
describe to you the understanding and attitude towards
love that you need to share if you are to collaborate
to up-level the emotional and sexual intimacy in your
relationship and take it as high as you can.
Step Two - Learning the art of Emotional and Sexual Intimacy
We are not taught the language and concepts involved in
creating emotional and sexual intimacy. We know that if
we are to be successful in our work-life that we need
to become experts in what we do and have the capacity
to think and talk in the constructs that describe our
work. Relationship requires the same level of expertise
and yet we do not develop it because it is considered
to be something that comes naturally. It would come naturally
if our parents and society were excellent role models
but that is not the case. Thus, most us stumble about
doing the best that we can, but the lack of joy and fulfillment
that we typically experience in our relationships attests
to the fact that the best is not necessarily good enough
to give us the gratification that we long for in relationship.
In order to develop emotional intimacy we need to be aware
of what is going on in us and be articulate enough to
express it. We need to have the emotional honesty share
this with our partner and the communicate skills to do
so in a way that our partner can hear us without upset.
We need to be aware of the attitudes and emotional blocks
that get in the way of our emotional intimacy and sexual
passions and know how to develop the skills to transform
these.
In this segment of the session, we will show you what
to do to go deeper into yourselves and to begin to understand
and transform the dynamics of your relationship. You will
also learn how collaborate together in developing more
satisfying and exciting sexual skills. We will direct
you towards the resources that you can use that will help
you develop these skills and advise you how to use them.
Step Three - The Tantric Romantic Date Night
This could be a date night or a date day - or both. In
this, the longet segment of the session, we will
explain to you the importance of the Tantric Date night
and how to conduct such a night. This is an overview in
which we will explain how to sequence the evening and
describe many of the options and activities but you would
not experience them. We will provide you with a list of
all the resources that you will need.
2. INTRODUCTION TO TANTRA AND A TANTRIC PUJA FOR TWO
(1 1/2 to3 hours)
We will begin by learning a little about the two of you
and about your relationship and will give you whatever
insights we get about how to take your relationship to
the next level and bring more depth and passion into your
relationship. We have helped many in this way, and may
be able to help you.
We will give you an overview of some of the keys to Tantra
and Sacred Sexuality. The keys we give you will prepare
you for the Tantric Puja you will do and your night of
love-making.
The Tantric Puja will be a one and a half to two hour
experience.
A Couple's Tantric Puja is a series of Tantric rituals
all of which are completed by the one couple for the purpose
of building and honouring their divine union and celebrating
their sacred sexuality.
The Tantric Puja focuses on:
* Establishing the sacred heart space
* Connecting from a place of powerful, heart connected
presence
* Following your partner's energy and attuning to them
* Initiating the experience of sensual Tantric Touch
* Running sexual energy and connecting it with spiritual
energy - your own and your partners
* Sex magic for manifesting your desires
3. ROMANCING YOUR RELATIONSHIP: HOW TO CREATE LASTING
INTIMACY, PASSION AND PLEASURE - A COACHING/WORKSHOP COMBINATION
FOR COUPLES IN LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS (3 to 4 hours)
We come together in great love. We conjoin and wear the
ring of our undying commitment. We begin to feel safe.
We no longer have to be on our best behaviour. Our standards
fall. We find that our partner's apparent best interest
is not the same as our best interest and soon a power
battle, whether low-keyed or high keyed, ensues and we
become not only each other's primary companion but intimate
enemies. Familiarity dampens the flames of hot love and
our times of love get further and further apart. We still
care but are disappointed with what we created out of
the material of the union of our loves and lives.
Is it possible to go back and recreate fresh love and
reignite hot passion, in each case better than ever before.
We say yes. It is possible to do so. We will help you
move into the mental, emotional and spiritual places that
form the foundation of such a reality. We will direct
you to resources that will help you to continue the job
after the workshop is over. We will provide you with the
concepts and languaging that will provide you with the
mental awareness and tools to recreate yourselves. We
will provide optional personal counselling for your unique
relationship issues. We will provide other educational
and transformational relationship experiences to take
you to the next level.
Agenda
In 3 or 4 hours you will be given powerful tools to help
you bring back the warm glow of romance that brought you
together in the first place.
You will learn how to replace habits of relating may
have doused the flame with daily patterns of romance renewal
that enhance passion.
Learn positive communication styles that allow both partners
to feel heard, validated and understood.
Learn how to share difficult truths in a healthy way.
Learn how to make each other right, even when you don't
agree.
Discover how clearing these emotional and communication
issues can open the way to reawakening levels of passion
you had almost forgotten were possible
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How to overcome the negative impact of familiarity and
turn it into a plus.
How to create sacredness and specialness in your long
term relationship
Understanding the psychological dynamics in relationship
and how to handle them
Creating a collaborative team to manifest a more conscious,
loving, turn-on relationship.
Re-visioning your relationship.
Building intimacy and turn-on by up-leveling the emotional
honesty in your relationship.
Communication skills that increase the amount of respect,
understanding, and win-win in your relationship.
How to have a fabulous date night that leads from relaxation,
to emotional intimacy, sensuality and passion.
4. A GUIDED TANTRIC ROMANTIC DATE NIGHT EXPERIENCE (4
to 8 hours)
The Guided Experience will begin with the short coaching
session on How to Create the Kind of Emotional Intimacy
that Leads to Sexual Intimacy and Passion. We will then
guide the Tantric Date Night Experience for you, taking
you through all of the phases of the Tantric date night,
until it became appropriate for us to leave you, a point
that would be decided on in consultation with you. It
would begin with us explaining to you the importance of
the Tantric Date night and how to conduct such a night.
We will choreograph for you the perfect seduction. We
believe that the perfect seduction derives from being
in a space of powerful, heart-centered presence with each
other, in which you honor and appreciate the beauty that
you find in each other, and from opening to fresh, new
experiences that take you deeper into emotional and sexual
intimacy. We will help you bring into your relationship
the quality of attention, appreciation and excitement
that you normally only associate with the novelty of a
new love. We will guide you into experiences of deep sharing.
This openness will build the trust between you. Out of
this openness and trust, intimacy will develop. Intimacy
is the foundation of love. We will cement this intimacy
by taking you into what we call the Sacred Heart Space
and bring you into an experience of soul communion with
each other. We will then guide you into experiences of
sensual connection that may include sensual dancing, a
sensual shower, a Sensory Banquet, a sensual massage.
We will teach you some Tantric Touch which is a way of
touching which is truly exquisite to both the giver and
receiver and which tantalizes and builds orgasmic energy.
We can include an hour long Tantric Puja for two to bring
you to a high space of love and sexual energy connection.
We will then leave you to enjoy the love and give full
expression to the desire you have ignited.
How we guide this experience would vary according to
your desires. Where appropriate, we can role-model how
to do a certain activity and then leave you to share the
experience privately, even if it is a verbal sharing.
If this is the choice you make, we would be on-call for
you if you desired our support. Alternatively, we can
be present, as unobtrusively as you wish us to be, and
give you guidance and feed-back when required.
What this guided experience would include would not always
be the same. We can design the Tantric romantic date night
for you based on our instincts of what would provide the
best experience for you and the amount of time you wish
to allot to this. This session can last from four hours
to 8 hours.
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